In an odd way, I felt more prepared for the birth of my first child than my second. Before our son Ben was born, I read several books on pregnancy, birth, and early infancy, we attended Lamaze classes and a parenting seminar, we listened to podcasts and watched videos, and we asked questions of doctors, friends, family, and occasionally fellow grocery shoppers.
During the second pregnancy, I brushed up on things but I didn't read nearly as deeply, didn't go to classes, and generally didn't spend nearly as much time studying up on pregnancy, birth, or newborn care. As we went to the hospital for baby Scarlett's delivery, I felt distinctly less confident than I had with her brother four years earlier; I simply didn't prepare enough. Fortunately, it all came back quickly, though.