Love in the time of elections: Do politics spice up or spoil dating in India?

Navigating the messy world of online dating can be tough, and sometimes a potential suitor’s flaws can be deeper than just them dipping their pizza in ketchup. Their political beliefs, for instance, could influence whether you swipe left or right on a profile. And a new survey by happn, an online dating app, dives into the messy world of love and politics in India.

As per the survey, there’s some good news for the open-minded singles. About 65% of users in India don’t believe that differing political views should necessarily stop them from dating someone. However, the users’ age does seem to play a role.

Gen Z daters (18-25) are more willing to bend on politics for love, with 44% admitting to it. They might prioritise finding someone they connect with on a personal level, believing that shared values and interests can outweigh political differences.

Seasoned daters (36+), on the other hand, tend to be a bit more cautious, with 66% preferring someone who shares their political views. Perhaps they've witnessed how strongly held political beliefs can create friction in relationships, or they simply value finding a partner who aligns with their worldview.
City by city love-o-meter
Delhi: Most open-minded city, with a whopping 67% across all ages believing politics shouldn't affect love. Delhi, a melting pot of cultures and backgrounds, might foster a more tolerant attitude towards differing political viewpoints.

Hyderabad: Younger daters are cool with differences, but millennials (especially men) prefer political alignment (56% of men aged 36+). This suggests a potential shift in priorities as Hyderabadis age, with more men placing greater emphasis on shared political beliefs for long-term compatibility.

Mumbai: Most are receptive to dating activists (75% open to a partner passionate about social causes). Mumbai, known for its progressive spirit, might be more accepting of individuals who are actively engaged in social change.

Bangalore: Most avoid political talk on first dates, but those aged 26-35 are more comfortable discussing it later (73% of men and 76% of women). Bangaloreans might prefer to keep first dates light and breezy, but as they get to know someone better, they're open to exploring deeper topics like political beliefs.

On a national level, 74.8% of happn users prefer to steer clear of potentially divisive topics like politics, and instead focus on making a good first impression. However, about 62.8% of Indian singles are ready to dive headfirst into a debate over dessert.

Further, 66% of Indians are open to dating people involved in social causes, particularly Gen Z. This suggests a rise in socially conscious singles who value partners who share their passion for making a difference in the world.

The survey does seem to have some gaps, though. This survey’s sample size has not been mentioned, and it is unclear what percentage of happn users were Gen Z and what percentage was in the older age group.
Stop crushing & go voting!
The Lok Sabha elections are going on in full swing and 88% of happn users plan to vote. And to inspire the youth, happn is launching an initiative urging users to "Stop Crushing & Go Voting," championing the idea that patriotism is not just about love for one’s partner but also for one’s country.

While political views can influence Indian dating, there's an openness to connection despite differences. So, keep an open mind, discuss your passions (including activism!), and maybe avoid the political debate on the first date. After all, there's plenty to discover about your date's personality, hobbies, and dreams – and maybe even find love in the process!