How Vanessa Bryant became 'Queen Mamba'
Vanessa Urbieta Cornejo Laine was born on May 5, 1982 in Los Angeles, California.
Her parents were protective, and didn't let her date much, The Los Angeles Times reported.
The summer before her senior year of high school in 1999, Vanessa was spotted at a concert and asked to appear in a music video.
Vanessa was called to appear in a music video alongside rappers Snoop Dogg and Tha Eastsidaz for their song "G'd Up.", clad in a metallic bikini for her debut as a music video model.
Shortly after the shoot, the 17-year-old was called to appear in another music video, where she met 20-year-old Los Angeles Laker Kobe Bryant.
The basketball phenom later wrote on Instagram that he asked Vanessa for her number on November 28, 1999, and the pair went to Disneyland on their first date. Bodyguards trailed them at the park.
Vanessa soon became widely known as Kobe's other half, and their relationship caused a stir while she was attending her senior year at Huntington Beach's Marina High School.
"She'd bring pictures of Kobe to school, and we'd all be like 'Omygod!' " Vanessa's former classmate, Monica Squadrilli, told the Los Angeles Times. "I remember there was one of him playing with her puppies, and she would only let us look at it, we couldn't touch it."
Other classmates told the Times they remembered Bryant sending roses to the school office and picking her up from class in his Mercedes.
Vanessa became a fixture at Bryant's side through appearances at games and red carpets before the Lakers star proposed six months after they met, at her 18th birthday party.
The couple famously did not sign a prenuptial agreement, as Vanessa's stepfather Stephen Laine later told the Los Angeles Times that "she just came home one day and said something to the effect that Kobe didn't want a prenup — that he loved her too much."
The young couple got married in April 2001, but the wedding fell at the center of family drama.
Fewer than two years after they first met, the couple got married at St. Edward the Confessor Catholic Church in Southern California's Dana Point.
The ceremony was intimate and reportedly included only 12 people, partially because neither Kobe' s parents nor his sisters attended after disapproving of him getting married so young and to someone who was not African American.
Kobe later told the Orlando-Sentinel that his relationship with Vanessa had sparked a large rift between him and his father. His father, Joe, denied holding any hostility toward daughter-in-law, saying they were "cool" and while he respected Kobe's life, he acknowledged a rift with his son.
"It's his life, we've got nothing to do with it," he told the paper. "We've done our job."
As Kobe's star continued to rise, Vanessa was by his side. The couple thrilled fans when they announced in September 2002 that they were expecting a daughter.
When they went out in public, bodyguards went, too.
The couple's first child, Natalia Diamante Bryant, was born on January 19, 2003.
Her middle name was a nod to Vanessa's love of diamonds, according to the Los Angeles Times.
Later that year, a 19-year-old woman accused Kobe of sexual assaulting her on a June 2003 trip to Denver, Colorado.
In a statement released after the allegation surfaced, Vanessa stood by Kobe and said she trusted he would make amends to their marriage.
"I know that my husband has made a mistake, the mistake of adultery,'' she said in the rare statement. "He and I will have to deal with that within our marriage, and we will do so. He is not a criminal.''
The Lakers guard held a July 2003 press conference in the Staples Center, where he admitted to infidelity but insisted that it was a consensual sexual encounter. As he spoke, Vanessa was at his side holding his hand.
"I sit here in front of you guys furious at myself, disgusted at myself for making the mistake of adultery," he said. "I love my wife with all my heart. She's my backbone."
The woman didn't testify, and prosecutors dropped the case in September 2004. The two parties settled a civil suit out of court for an undisclosed amount on March 2, 2005.
The couple's appearance during the scandal became an iconic image, even sparking a mocking nod from "Saturday Night Live."
Maya Rudolph played Vanessa.
In the months following the scandal, all eyes were on Vanessa's hand, where it was rumored Kobe's penance sat.
It was initially rumored the couple was headed for divorce after the scandal, but a $4 million, 8-karat purple diamond ring was rumored to be a token of apology from the basketball star to his wife.
The star also showed off a fresh tattoo he had gotten to honor her.
It included her name and angel wings on his right bicep.
Kobe later said in a 2015 documentary that it was around this time Vanessa had a miscarriage, which he blamed on himself.
Kobe revealed in the 2015 Showtime documentary "Muse" that Vanessa had a miscarriage while expecting the couple's second child.
He said he blamed himself and had wondered if the stress she experienced during his cheating scandal and sexual assault charge might have led to the miscarriage at the time.
"It's something I have a real hard time dealing with that because I felt like it was just my fault," Bryant said in the documentary. "The reality is it happened because of me, that's something I have to deal with. Something I gotta carry forever."
Three years after the birth of their first child, daughter Gianna Maria-Onore Bryant was born on May 1, 2006.
"The arrival of our daughter early this morning is an incredible blessing for me and my family," Kobe said in a statement. "We are all full of beautiful emotions after what has been such an incredible day."
As Kobe continued to dominate the court, the couple turned to philanthropic efforts to give back to Los Angeles.
In 2007, the couple expanded their philanthropic reach when they established the VIVO Foundation, which would later become known as the Kobe and Vanessa Bryant Foundation.
The organization's mission statement says it is dedicated to helping children and families in need with financial and educational resources, in addition to "encouraging young people to stay active through sports."
The Bryants would later double their efforts in 2011 by founding a charitable organization that sought to fight homelessness and support homeless youth in Los Angeles.
In addition to their own groups, the Bryants supported various other charities, including Stand Up to Cancer and the Make A Wish Foundation.
The couple appeared to be on the rocks again in December 2011, when after 10 years together, Vanessa filed for divorce in Orange County Superior Court.
But after the filings, which cited "irreconcilable differences" rumors swirled for months that the couple wouldn't go through with it.
By January 2013, the couple posted on social media to make their reconciliation official, the Los Angeles Times reported.
"We are looking forward to our future together," Vanessa posted on Instagram, while Kobe wrote on Facebook that "when the show ends and the music stops, the journey is made beautiful by having that someone to share it with."
After their reconciliation, Vanessa and the couple's daughters remained a fixture in the audience at Kobe's games.
Sitting courtside was one of the many extravagant perks the family had access to with Kobe as the highest paid player in the NBA.
The license plate on Vanessa's Mercedes-Benz reportedly said "ICE QN."
In 2016, Kobe and Vanessa welcomed their third daughter, Bianka Bella Bryant, shortly before the basketball star announced his retirement.
Three years later, the couple welcomed their fourth daughter in 2019, named Capri Kobe Bryant.
Vanessa is famously a private person, rarely granting interviews.
She did release a statement after her husband's retirement: "I'm so excited to see what God has in store for us as a family now that one chapter is closing and new ones are opening."
Vanessa and her daughters were a focal point of Kobe's growing image as a family man, as the retired player focused on working with charities and women's sports.
The new chapter of Kobe's career expanded on the family's existing efforts to encourage young athletes, and the father-of-four initially pulled away from basketball, but became more involved as his daughter Gianna showed a flourishing interest in the sport.
Bryant coached his daughter's team, the Mambas, and established the Mamba Sports Academy, which hosts a wide range of athletes for holistic training, practices, and tournaments alongside NBA and WNBA players.
The Bryant family was thrust into the glaring spotlight again when Kobe and 13-year-old Gianna were killed in a shocking helicopter crash on January 26.
Kobe and Gianna were among the nine victims who were traveling to the Thousand Oaks Mamba training facility when their helicopter crashed.
Fans, athletes, and sports journalists mourned the losses of one of basketball's greatest icons and one of its most promising future athletes.
Singer Jessica Simpson shared an Instagram post after the accident that included a photo of the area where the helicopter crashed, in addition to a touching caption that paid tribute to Vanessa and Kobe's relationship.
"My heart is completely broken for all the families and loved ones left behind trying to make sense of things in this tragic moment," Simpson wrote. "Vanessa, you are the woman and wife that championed your husband to greatness."
On Wednesday, Vanessa changed her Instagram profile picture to a photo of Kobe and Gigi hugging and smiling.
It was the first public statement she made since their deaths on Sunday.
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