Inside the marriage of Bill and Melinda Gates, who met at work, live in a $124 million home, and will leave their children only a small fraction of their fortune

"Melinda and I believe that everyone deserves the chance for a healthy and productive life — and so with the help of our amazing partners, we are working to find innovative ways to help people in need all over the world," Bill wrote on one of his Reddit AMAs.

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Today, Bill has said he and Melinda work as partners at the foundation. The couple both received Presidential Medals of Freedom in 2016 from US President Barack Obama for their efforts.

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Billionaire Warren Buffett, who is close with the Gates, discussed their relationship with Fortune, saying that Bill is "smart as hell, obviously ... but in terms of seeing the whole picture, [Melinda's] smarter."

Melinda has said her relationship with her husband has changed over time: "We've had to change to really be coequals. It's not something that immediately happens overnight, but we're both committed to it."

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The Gates kids will each inherit around $10 million of their parents' $89.6 billion fortune — much of the rest will go to charitable causes. "We want to strike a balance where they have the freedom to do anything but not a lot of money showered on them so they could go out and do nothing," Bill told TED.

Bill and Melinda would read books from a range of genres to their kids as they grew up, from "Guess How Much I Love You" to "Fahrenheit 451."

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Bill told Rolling Stone the children have been raised in Melinda's Catholic faith, saying, "We've raised our kids in a religious way; they've gone to the Catholic church that Melinda goes to and I participate in."

The couple has raised two daughters and a son together — and reportedly didn't let any of them own a cell phone until they were 14, according to BGR.

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The following year, the couple's lavish home — nicknamed "Xanadu 2.0" — was completed in Medina, Washington. The mansion was estimated to be worth $124 million as of 2016.

In order to keep the wedding private, Bill booked all the rooms in the hotel, along with all of the helicopters on the island of Maui to "prevent unwanted visitors from flying over," Forbes reported.

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The couple married in 1994 in what was then Manele Bay Hotel in Hawaii. They tied the knot by the "par-3 12th hole" on the property's golf course, according to Forbes. The event reportedly cost $1 million.

After they became engaged, Bill and Melinda traveled to Africa in the fall of 1993. During the trip, they encountered extreme poverty. On a walk on a beach in Zanzibar, Melinda told TED the couple "started to talk about" how they might use their fortune to help others.

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"I was definitely attracted to his brilliant mind, but beyond that, his curiosity," she told Fortune. "And he has a huge sense of fun. I love that wry side of him."

"When I look back, Bill was the same kind of guy I was hanging out with in college. I had a lot of respect for them, and they had respect for me," Melinda told Fortune.

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But the couple didn't listen. Business Insider's Tanza Loudenback reported they simply "kept a low profile at work and asked colleagues and family members to respect their privacy."

Melinda and Bill dated for seven years before they wed. Melinda told Fortune her mom didn't think seeing the CEO was a good idea, in the beginning.

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Instead, he called her up later that night with a wry question: "Is this spontaneous enough for you?" Turns out, it was.

At the picnic, Melinda did give Bill her number and told him to call her closer to the day he had in mind.

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