The 9 most annoying things your group can do at a bar, according to a bartender
- Large groups can make a bartender's job difficult when they demand separate checks, expect special treatment, and don't know what they want to order.
- As a bartender, I often treat big groups better when they make my life easier.
- Here are the nine most annoying things you can do at a bar when you're in a large group, and what you should do instead.
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In the service industry, large groups have always had a bad rap.Whether it's a beer-league team winding down after a game or a bachelorette party painting the town red, the phrase "the more the merrier" doesn't always hold true for those on the other side of the bar, like me.
However, there are ways to make your bartender an infinitely bigger fan of your big group, despite our anxiety over the lack of an assured gratuity.And there's something in it for you, too. When I'm feeling charmed by a big group, I'm more likely to suggest cool items that aren't on the menu, give honest opinions of what's on the menu, dole out small tastes of my recommended spirits, and gush about the best spots for you to hit next.
A really happy bartender might even "forget" to ring in a drink or upcharge on your tab.With that in mind, here are nine of the most annoying things you can do at a bar when you're in a big group, and what you should do instead.
Don't get separate checks in a huge group — have one person cover it, or split the bill evenly.
If you must get separate checks, don't nitpick small errors that may inevitably arise.Advertisement
If the bar is busy, get another guest — not the server or bartender — to take your group photo.
Know what your group wants when it's time to orderAdvertisement
And if you don't know what you want, don't make the bartender guess.
As for ordering all at once, there are polite ways and impolite ways to do it.Advertisement
Wrangle in your friends who are overly raucous.
But if someone in your group is cut off, don't make it worse.Advertisement
And don't expect special treatment just because your big group is celebrating.
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