9 signs you're more likable than you realize

• Charismatic people have certain traits and behaviors in common that make them likable.
• Above all, they focus on other people instead of themselves.
• For example, they ask lots of questions in conversation, show empathy, and nod attentively.

Everyone worries from time to time.

Maybe you walked into a roomful of coworkers whispering and assumed they were gossiping about you. Or maybe your friends forgot to include you on the email chain for an upcoming getaway.

Our advice? Relax. You're probably plenty well-liked.

But if you're really worried about it, we've put together a list of research-and-expert-backed signs that you're likable - perhaps even more so than you realize.

You'll notice that many of the items on this list have to do with paying more attention to other people and less attention to yourself. Somewhat ironically, once you stop worrying about being likable, you'll have a better chance at winning other people over.