10 reasons Why You should throw Toxic people out of Your life NOW!

It often so happens that before you realize, you end up making friends with a certain person you met at a party or somebody you came across in an official event. Call it being social, extrovert or a less judgmental; it’s not your fault if you are too quick at making friends or getting into relationships. You actually think it’s a good thing to be not in a shell. We think so too, till it actually becomes a problem!

While weaving such new relationships, maybe you do not take the time to understand who that person really is, and you overlook that he/she who you befriended has layers that can envelope you in negativity. And before you realize, you find yourself depressed/surrounded by negativity. Your smile, your charm and your friendliness disappears and all that’s left is a dark, unhappy feeling inside.

But it’s too late, because you are now an emotional wreck devastated to believe what is unfolding before your eyes.

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Realize: A Mistake once made is made. You cannot UNDO, but you can avoid repeating it. So my friend, when danger’s is knocking on the door frantically, don’t waste your time thinking or destroying your dreams, it’s just best to throw the person immediately out of your life. Easier said than done? Yes, you may find it difficult or lack the courage, but if there’s anything that can you can do to get that smile back – it’s to get rid of toxic people from your life. Temporarily painful, but a happy investment for a lifetime!

TAKE OUR ADVICE: Simply start loving yourself TODAY more than anyone else.

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PS: But before that, 10 reasons WHY you should throw toxic people out of your life. Because we know we have some more convincing to do:

PICTURE YOUR PARENTS IN THAT DARKNESS THAT SHROUDS YOUR MIND

PICTURE YOUR PARENTS IN THAT DARKNESS THAT SHROUDS YOUR MIND
Visualize how they brought you into this world, nurtured and took good care of you. Not so that you will spend it crying over little failed mistakes in your life. A lifetime is going to be less if you start repaying them for what you are today, so don't waste your time over petty things.

LIFE IS TOO SHORT.. LOVE IT

LIFE IS TOO SHORT.. LOVE IT
Don't make the things that don't deserve your love and attention bigger than your OWN life. it's a very bad habbit. If you pick a piece of paper, your problems should be a dot somewhere in the corner of that paper. What you do instead is make that piece of paper your problems, and that dot your life. Don't do that!
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LET FRESH AIR COME IN...... ..YOUR LIFE

LET FRESH AIR COME IN...... ..YOUR LIFE
So far, may be you were not cautious while making friends. It was a matter of seconds you needed to create a bond with anyone you met. Well, it ended you up in a soup. That doesn't mean you shut yourself out. All you need is to be more careful. The world doesn't like you to be innocent, it wants you to be judgmental. A little bit of it won't hurt. it's for your sanity.

DON'T CURSE YOURSELF, IT HAPPENS

DON'T CURSE YOURSELF, IT HAPPENS
WITH EVERYONE.. At least you can see the problem now, thank god for that. Had you not seen or realized the problematic people in your life, you were likely to have destroyed it.
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IF YOU DO BAD, YOU GET IT BACK

IF YOU DO BAD, YOU GET IT BACK
You know your actions THE BEST. So if you know you are right ethically, morally, professionally and personally, the Karma is likely to bite the one who is messing around with you unnecessarily. Cut him/her out and relax sipping that cup of coffee. You have nothing to worry about..

NOR YOU DO!

NOR YOU DO!
Neither give constant criticism, nor take it from anybody. Constructive criticism should be welcomed always because that's probably to help you become better. But constantly, HELL NO! Give no shit about it!
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THERE'S SOME INSIGHT TO TAKE FROM PRATYUSHA BANNERJEE'S CASE

THERE'S SOME INSIGHT TO TAKE FROM PRATYUSHA BANNERJEE'S CASE
Why do people become so important that one gives up on their dream? Think for a moment, if they are the ones you love as friends or parents or better halves, aren't they supposed to empower you more each day so that you can move towards your dreams. They aren't supposed to come in your way, they are supposed to be behind you pushing you further!

YOU HAVE ALREADY WASTED ENOUGHT TIME!

YOU HAVE ALREADY WASTED ENOUGHT TIME!
You have realized that it's not worth your time anymore. Why waste a second on it then? Spend that time on yourself!
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LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES

LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES
A mistake done once or twice is a MISTAKE. But if done repetitively, it's foolishness. Feel happy that you made a mistake and learnt something from it - Because now you will not give yourself another such instance to feel the same pain or hurt!

IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF, HOW WILL OTHERS LOVE YOU?

IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF, HOW WILL OTHERS LOVE YOU?
When deciding to end what you thought was a valuable relationship, remember loving yourself can lessen the pain and sense of betrayal you feel.
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