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10 ways to get better at small talk

Oct 13, 2015, 23:08 IST

1. Demonstrate interest in your conversation partner

2. Ask open-ended questions

3. Allow your conversation partner to teach you

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4. Read the news

5. Share anecdotes

6. Practice the FORM technique

  • F-amily: Do you have kids? Where is your family from? How long have you lived around here?
  • O-ccupation: What do you do for a living? What is that like? Have you always been a circus acrobat?
  • R-ecreation: What do you guys do for fun? How long have you been involved in SCA? Where do you buy chain-mail, or did you make it yourself?
  • M-oney: What happened with the price of gas? Did you see that last school-bond issue? How do you think the new liquor-store laws will shake out? Anybody you know lose their job lately?

7. Be honest

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8. Copy good conversationalists

9. Boost your conversation partner's self-esteem

10. Practice with everyone you meet

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