A relationship expert reveals when you should get engaged

The INSIDER Summary:

• Getting engaged means you have a shared vision of your lives together.
• It's important to have a sense of direction when it comes to major decisions.
• Go with your gut, and make sure you know what you're getting into.

It's easy to get swept up in the starry-eyed romance of a perfectly-planned proposal, but getting engaged isn't all surprise scavenger hunts and Pinterest-worthy events.

According to relationship expert and bestselling author Susan Winter, it's a serious commitment that requires communication, compromise, and going with your gut.

Here are five signs that you're ready to put a ring on it.