Episode: Season 3, episode 4
In a brunch scene, there are many problematic statements about bisexuality. Carrie, for example, describes bisexuality as a "layover on the way to gay town." Charlotte also weighs in on the subject, saying people should "pick a side and stay there." Miranda calls bisexuality "greedy" and "a problem."
Throughout the episode, Carrie repeatedly pesters her bisexual love interest about whether he is attracted to men or women more and even asks if she "kisses better than a guy." Carrie ends up leaving him at a party after a game of all-gendered spin the bottle, where she describes herself as an "old fart."
In 2018, even Sarah Jessica Parker, who played Carrie, told a reporter at the Wall Street Journal's Future of Everything Festival that "there was no substantial conversation about the LGBTQ community" on the show, according to Refinery 29, which cited an article by Pink News.