Office nightmares: when mom embarrasses you in front of a big-time CEO
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Ask the Insider columnist Ashley Lutz answers all of your work-related questions, including the awkward, sensitive, and real-world ones. Have a question? Email asktheinsider@businessinsider.com.
Dear Insider,
My mom is my business partner and we went to an interview together with the CEO of a major corporation.
I introduced her as my business partner, but then she told them, "I'm her mother, and as her parents we're just here to support our daughter in her dreams."
It was so awkward! What could we have done differently so we don't diminish my standing as CEO of my company?
Sincerely,
Daughter Working With Mom
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Dear Daughter:
What an embarrassing moment! I imagine you must have felt like a sheepish elementary school student instead of a CEO with your own company.
Having your mom as your business partner isn't something to hide. There's a reason the term "family business" tends to connote a reliable and trustworthy institution. When potential clients hear you're working with mom, they're probably going to think you are more dedicated to your company. It's also a great conversation starter.
To avoid awkward situations in the future, however, it's important for you and your mom to establish a script - and stick to it.
Your mom's touchy-feely comments were over the line, making you and the client uncomfortable. Go over what you will say next time so no one is caught off guard.
And consider joining The National Association of Mothers & Daughters in Business, which is full of reports and resources on navigating this unique situation.
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Ashley Lutz is a senior editor at Business Insider answering all of your questions about the workplace. Send your queries to asktheinsider@businessinsider.com for publication on Business Insider. Requests for anonymity will be granted, and questions may be edited.
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