Find pleasure in things that don't cost much — or anything
I'm lucky enough to live in New York City, where there's an abundance of free things to do. I will note that it's much easier to head to happy hour after work or meet up with friends at a restaurant than it is to rally a group to go to a park or free museum. That said, after putting in the research to find a free New York activity and going out and actually doing it, it was 100% worth the time and effort. Just because wining and dining is the most popular way to socialize doesn't mean it's the only way to socialize.
The best savers simply choose to live modestly — they find, and enjoy, the wealth of cheap and free activities out there, such as cooking, hiking, reading, and taking advantage of the free activities offered by your city or town.
As Joe Udo, who saved over half his income and retired at age 38, writes on his blog, "Sure, it’s fun to spend money. I like eating out, traveling, and other entertainments as much as anyone. However, I think I found the secret to spending less money. You have to learn to enjoy free or cheap entertainments ... There are a ton of free things to do out there and you don't have to spend a lot of money to have fun."