I stayed home with my kid and didn't go back to earning money. I did get a PhD and write a book, but I didn't figure out how to make money while also being responsible for a baby. Ten years later, I think about all the time I missed — investing in myself, my confidence, and my workplace skills — by dropping out for so long. I wish I hadn't lost all those years. I think I would have been a better mom to my kid if I had been more in the world myself.
Ah, but hindsight … well, you know. If I could go back in time and tell myself to let the cards fall where they may, I would have been happier and most likely, a better mom.