Nikki Sharp, an author, podcast host, and model, is used to getting DMs thanks to her 455,000 Instagram followers.
So she didn't expect anything out of the ordinary when she checked her Instagram messages while on a trip with her girlfriends to St. Lucia in November 2020. But a message from Kummert, a hedge fund manager and founder of Calvion Capital, changed everything.
"It was one of those moments I think everyone gets where I was like, 'I really don't wanna date. I'm getting off the apps,'" Sharp told Insider. "'I wanna focus on me. I love my life. I love my friends.' And of course, that's when he showed up."
Sharp, 35, and Kummert, 37, started communicating, and they quickly realized how much they had in common. Sharp lived in Miami at the time while Kummert was based in New York, so their relationship continued virtually.
"We would have just these deliciously long, long conversations," Sharp told Insider of the social-media messages. "We hadn't had a phone call yet. I didn't even know what his voice sounded like."
Three weeks later, they had a two-hour-long phone date, and their connection only continued to grow.
"It was so nice for me because I am an author, I have been on TV, and I'm a former model. I know that people look at me based on my following and based on how I look. So it was really nice to have someone meet me for me," she said of their phone calls.