6 Ways To Instantly Make Yourself Sexier





From an evolutionary standpoint, we are attracted to people that we perceive as beautiful, like those with symmetric faces or large eyes, because it tends to signify good genetics. And good genes means healthy babies.

But just because you're not born looking like Heidi Klum doesn't mean you're doomed.

Science tells us that there are ways to spice up your sexiness, through techniques that aren't necessarily regulated by biology.

Hang out in groups

You look better with your friends than you do on your own, psychological scientists have found. The phenomenon known as the "cheerleader effect" happens because the human brain tends to average the faces of people in a group rather than seeing them as individual subjects. This benefits people with less attractive physical features.


Source: Psychological Science, 2013

Stick around for closing time

In a 1979 paper, University of Virgina researchers cite numerous studies showing that in a bar setting, individuals of the opposite sex are seen as more attractive as "the time to decide whether to interact with them decreases." A more recent study from 2010 confirmed that bar patrons see romantic potentials as "significantly more attractive" at closing time, but only if the observers were not in a relationship.

Source: Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 1979; Basic and Applied Social Psychology, 2010

Flash a bright smile

The same region of the brain that is activated when people receive a reward, called the medial orbitofrontal cortex, is engaged when a person sees a beautiful face. Using brain scans, a team of researchers showed that this response is "further enhanced by a smiling facial expression." The state of a person's chompers is also important. A separate study conducted by British researchers found that white and evenly-spaced teeth makes people seem more attractive, probably because it's a sign of health, and in women, fertility.

Source: Neuropsychologia, 2003; PLoS One, 2012


Wear red

Red is the color of hearts, roses, and love it seems. The well-studied "red-effect" suggests that both men and women are more drawn to the opposite sex when they are wearing red. In several experiments, researchers from the University of Rochester looked at women's responses to photographs of the same man in a variety of color shirts. A similar experiment was conducted to quantify the effect of red-garbed women on men. In both scenarios, the participants were more eager to get it on when the person in the photograph was wearing red.

This could be partly learned, as red has long been associated with royalty, and we now equate it with power or being able to provide. For women, the response may be more biological. "Research has shown that nonhuman male primates are particularly attracted to females displaying red,"according to a statement from the University. "Female baboons and chimpanzees, for example, redden conspicuously when nearing ovulation, sending a clear sexual signal designed to attract males."

Source: Journal of Personal Social Psychology, 2008; Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 2012

Change the pitch of your voice

The way we speak plays a key part in the perceived attractiveness of men and women. In one study, researchers from the University College London found that in women, a higher-pitched voice is seen a more attractive because it indicates the speaker has a smaller body size. Guys, on the hand, should aim for a deep voice with a touch of breathiness, indicating they have a large size frame, but low levels of aggression.

Source: PLoS One, 2013


Work on your sense of humor

"Both men and women prefer someone with a ' good sense of humor' as a relationship partner," a study led by Eric Bressler of Westfield State College found, but each sex values humor differently. While women like men who make them laugh, men like women who laugh at their jokes (men don't care much about a women's wit). In another study, French researcher Nicolas Guéguen instructed men in a bar to either tell or not tell a funny joke to their friends as a woman sat at nearby table. The men who told jokes were three times more likely to get that woman's number than those who did not.

"The effect of a great sense of humor on women's attractions might be partially explained by the fact that funny people are considered to be more social and more intelligent, things that women seek in a mate," evolutionary psychologist explains in an article on Psychology Today.

Source: Evolution & Human Behavior, 2006; Personal Relationships, 2005; Psychological Reports, 2010