Sure, the whole process of marriage is about joining forces and becoming the ever-elusive “one,” but in reality, that’s not healthy. My friends were really worried about the prospect of me disappearing post wedding, but I didn't, and you shouldn't either. It's so important to continue to be your own person.
For me, I love taking workout classes and going out for drinks. Conversely, my husband likes attending sporting events. So we each go off on our merry way, have a great day and meetup later. In my opinion, that is the only way you can survive newlywed life and your future without resentment. Plus, it gives you more stuff to talk about when you're not constantly living the same narative!