A professional matchmaker shares the 4 most important things she's learned about love

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Strive to be more like the kind of person you want to attract.

For a lot of us, finding love is a maddening, elusive process. For matchmakers, it's just another day in the office.

So INSIDER asked New York City matchmaker Nora DeKeyser of Three Day Rule to share some of the most important things she's learned about finding love and making it last. Here's what she had to say.